If we change our outlook on our past experiences, is it possible that our desires will come quicker to us through the Law of Attraction? Your past experiences are a direct link to what you are experiencing today.

We all have past experiences that affect our lives. When we think back about a wonderful thought in our childhood, we feel secure and happy. But when we think on a past experience that was traumatic, we feel insecure and upset. In the Law of Attraction, the more you focus on a particular thought and feeling, the quicker the Universe will attract what you are emitting back to you.

When you focus on anything for a period of time, the subject of your focus begins to have a life of its own. As you focus and feel more and more on the same want or desire, the Universe takes its cue and brings what you are feeling focusing on to you. For example: Let’s say you had a relationship trauma as a young adult. Even though you are an older adult now, you still think about that experience. It was a time that was hurtful to you so every time you begin to attract a serious relationship, you discover that you can’t help but think, focus on, and return to that one terrible experience. But the more and more you think on and feel that experience, the more you will attract that kind of experience back into your life.

Why do you think people tend to repeat negative behavior patterns? They continue over and over again to relive past experiences, and when you do that, the Universe sends more of it to you. The Universe isn’t being unkind; the Universe is doing its job. It’s taking its cue from you through what you focus on and feel strongly about.

So how does one stop the repetitive thoughts and feelings? By starting new as often as you have to. Yesterday is a closed book. You don’t have to relive past experiences. When you think of a past experience that may not have been pleasant, do your best to separate from the experience itself while learning what you want or don’t want from that experience. Then let the experience go. It served its purpose but you can let it go. You are hurting your own self by hanging on to it. If you find it isn’t easy for you to let go, then play this game with yourself: When that traumatic experience surfaces in your memory, change the experience to what you would have wanted it to be. Take the whole situation and visualize how you wish it would have happened. By doing this, you can change your focus to the positive (as well as your feelings) and you will be creating better days for the future. By changing the past, even if it is only within your mind, something miraculous happens. Your heart becomes freer because of the hope of what could have been, and you create wonderful feelings about a situation that was once a negative focus for you. When you create those great feelings, your tomorrows will become days of ease and security.

By focusing on the joyous moments and gratitude now, you will bank good feelings that the Universe will work towards bringing to you. When you close the book of Yesterday, especially on the past’s not so great experiences, you will find that life becomes much smoother and easier.

But what about the wonderful experiences of the past? Wonderful past experiences are good ways to get the ‘happy’ thoughts going. Use the experiences for the good feelings generated from them.

What we do is this: We take a past experience and capture the feelings, not the experience, and then transfer the good feelings to what we currently want out of life. By using this method, you will have a great emotion attached to a current-day-focus that will be your true experience in your future.

Use this method to give up the hurtful past and then concentrate on a beautiful tomorrow for yourself and your loved ones. It works!

Can words keep you from obtaining what you desire through the Law of Attraction? It all depends on how you use your words.

Words, of themselves, won’t keep you from your desires but the feelings attached to them can.

There are many words that we say with such strong emotional attachment that they cause an upheaval in one’s feelings that are a complete opposite of the feeling you want while trying to stay in a certain vibrational space.

These specific ‘lack’ words cause you to feel worry, doubt, fear, shame, afraid, and frustrated. Each word exudes a feeling and the feeling caused is the concern with the use of these lack words. They are just words, but with the emotion attached they become extremely powerful.

Any emotion that you have, whether it is joyous or angry, sends the Universe that vibration and the Universe will match and return that vibration with similar ‘feeling’ situations. So when you send out a feeling of happiness, the Universe will attract and return to you the same feeling. The same goes for anger. When you are angry and stay that way, the Universe attracts the same. So you can imagine what the ‘lack’ words can cause in your life if you ‘feel’ them as well as say them.

Let’s illustrate an example. Imagine you are driving to work and someone cuts you off. You become irritated. You then get stuck in traffic and become more frustrated. Have you noticed that when you have a day that starts this way, the rest of the day seems to follow suit? This is the Law of Attraction in action. Because of your irritation and frustration, because of those strong feelings, you attract more of the same.

So how can you keep from blowing your top? It does takes some practice, and a complete awareness of yourself.

If you find yourself in a negative situation that is attached to strong feelings, first try to shorten the use of the lack words. We’re not saying you shouldn’t get upset; feel how you have to feel and then get it together and get it over with. Next, realize and be aware of your feelings and know that if you keep it up, you will attract more of the same. Find yourself some joy. Whatever it is, find it. If you are on the freeway stuck in traffic, do something that will put you in a better space; maybe bring your favorite CD in the car for such an occasion. Find something to raise your mind’s vibration so that you move away from the frustrated feelings. The more you can change your feelings into something good, the more you will have a life of good things, situations, and people.

Believe it or not, there are people who like to be upset and be drama queens. If that’s the case then continue with the ‘lack’ words and keep creating a world fit for all that drama.

For those of you who want to diminish the ’seemingly bad’ days and move into a place of greater tranquility, try what we have suggested. Move yourself out of the victim mode, move yourself out of the martyr mode, move yourself out of the frustration mode, and move yourself into a greater awareness.

You make the choice whether to have a good day or a bad day. Even if your day starts a little rocky and all those ‘lack’ words start popping up, you have the choice and the power to instantly change your day.

Use that power, use the choice, and create the day that you deserve.

The Law of Attraction has been labeled as part of a New Age movement, and the labelers have said there is no grounding within the Law of Attraction or that it is just a way to escape from the world. They believe that we believe that all one has to do is to lay around and dream and it all shows up on the doorstep.

Nothing could be further from the truth. There is work to be done when applying the Law of Attraction, but the work is worth it.

Here are a few constants when it comes to the Law of Attraction, in no particular order.

Law of Attraction Constant #1: Be specific in what you focus on. Why does it matter? Because the Universe brings you exactly what you desire, or better. If you give the Universe a foggy picture, it will have to fill in the blanks, your desire will be not what you wanted but instead could be a distorted version of it.

Law of Attraction Constant #2: See what you want in the now. If you have a desire that you are focusing on and you see it in the future (Example: You visualize on a particular vacation you want and you see it happening in the future) then it will stay in the future. Visualize like you are living it or having it now. Then the now will become your future.

Law of Attraction Constant #3: Repetition. Visualize everyday. This is important. You want to keep a clear focused image of what you desire going at all times. Each time you visualize, your desire is being directed out into the Universe and the picture and vibration becomes clearer and clearer until the day it is physically before you. Repetition replete with the ‘good feeling’ emotions will bring you what you desire that much quicker.

Law of Attraction Constant #4: Don’t micro manage the Universe. When you live day to day and you think of your desires, make sure you only see the end result of those desires. The how should be left up to the Universe. The Universe knows all of the unknown ways to attract your desire to you. If you visualize but also try to create how it happens, than you are pigeonholing the Universe into just doing it your way. By doing this, it may take much longer for the Universe to match your vibrations. But if you let the how be taken care of by the Universe you can live in the knowledge that your desire is here now.

Law of Attraction Constant #5: Find your purpose, what you enjoy doing, and the money will follow. Most people want to focus on the money, money, money. There is nothing wrong with that, but an easier method (and far more fulfilling method) to acquire money is to learn what your purpose is in life. Discover what you enjoy doing. Ask the question: What would you work at 24-7 and still enjoy? When you find what you believe your calling is, opportunities will come knocking at your door with the requisite financial answers. Find your purpose. The purpose doesn’t have to be spiritual in nature; just find what you love to do and could do everyday and make money at it which will allow you to take care of everything you desire in life.

Law of Attraction Constant #6: Living in joy. It’s true what they say: Money won’t bring you happiness. Be happy first and the money will follow. When you say that you will be happy when you have money, you’re implying that only money will make you happy. Live in the joy of life now. Be happy and grateful with your life now. Find small things to be grateful for if you have to. You can live in happiness before your big windfall arrives. And by living in joy now, you are creating a joyous future because all of your ‘today’ thoughts are creating your future life.

These constants are merely the tip of the iceberg as it pertains to the Law of Attraction. It takes time and some deconstructing of your past, then the reconstruction of your current thoughts to attract what you desire, but it is worth the effort in order to have the life you truly deserve.

Have you wondered why you haven’t yet attained what you desire through the Law of Attraction? Have you been performing all of your Law of Attraction duties yet still haven’t gotten exactly what you have wanted? Let’s talk a little about how your desires manifest on a time line.

A lot of people think since they are visualizing, keeping the faith, showing gratitude (to name a few) that surely by now, after two weeks, they should already be living in the Bahamas and drinking the pretty little drinks with the paper umbrellas. The Law of Attraction takes a little mental work for everything to gel just as you want it.

If we were immediately given everything that came to mind, we would be in a heap of chaos. Think about some of the fleeting thoughts you may have had; there are obvious reasons why every thought doesn’t manifest immediately. (Remember the elephant in the movie, The Secret?) But how exactly does the Universe work to attract to you what you have been visualizing?

The Law of Attraction works like a garden. You obtain your seeds (desires) and plant them in the ground. Once those seeds have been planted, they are not going to grow without water and food are they? Water (visualize) your seeds everyday. But what if you forget to water those seeds for a couple of days? Simply, they are just going to sit there and do nothing, and if you gave them just a little sunlight and a little water (not enough attention) they would be weakened and not strong.

Or what if you have a day where it is raining so hard (tough day) and your seeds almost float off in the heavy rainwater? It can be hard protecting (from the cynics) your seeds and keeping the faith. You know that those seeds are going to push through the ground and become full blown flowers (manifested desires). You care for them and nurture them and let the Universe take care of them and know that beneath the ground are budding flowers just ready to come up. You’re excited and can’t wait to see those wondrous flowers bloom but you also know that they will pop out of the ground when they are healthy and ready.

You get small signs that something is going on. There is a teeny weenie plant leaf (sign from the Universe) peeping through the ground and your faith builds. You know that the little flower will be out soon but you still leave it to the Universe because you know that it will take care of your seeds.

Then one day, after the seeds have matured and grown, you see a sprout come out of the ground. Once that sprout is up, you still have to water (visualize) the budding plant (manifesting desire) to keep it alive. Then one day in spring, you go outdoors to water your little plant and it has become a beautiful flower (manifested desires) and it is more beautiful than you could have ever imagined. If the time had not been taken to care and nurture this flower it could not have lived without you or the Universe but if you continue to water it, your flower will stay beautiful and healthy.

It’s important to give the Universe time to create your desire and just know, like the little seeds, that your desire will come up out of the ground and turn in to a bloom that was even better than you had imagined. Like the beauty given from a colorful spring garden, it’s worth the wait.

The law of attraction is universal and that is a proven fact. You will reap what you sow, that is one secret law of attraction, and you will attract those things that you either desire or don’t desire depending upon how much focus you put forth on that object.

If you have no respect for wealth, prosperity, abundance, happiness, and being healthy you will not have these things in your life. Fact is you will most likely get the opposite in your life. You will be putting the laws of attraction to work against you.

Have you ever tried doing something and told friends and family about it? What happened? Let’s use a home business for example. What happened when you first told your friends and family that you were going to start a home business or any thing for that matter that was going to be difficult to do?

They probably did what mine did to me. They either laughed, cut you down, tried to talk you out of it or they did it all. Mine tried to talk me out of it giving me the old “why not get a real job with security and benefits?” Also they said I was crazy? Please tell me any job in today’s world that is actually secure and that the company is going to look after you?

There is a reason that they do these things and it is because they can not see themselves doing it and becoming a successful person and financially independent so they can not visualize anyone they know being able to do what they themselves believe they can not do also. The sad part is that they are putting the laws of attraction to work against them.

Another thing they are afraid of risk and afraid of failing so to keep this pain out of their lives they would rather not try at all than attempt and fail. Also too if they can not be successful they do not want anyone they know to become successful either. If you were to become successful it would only remind them of there lack this is one reason why they will try to short circuit your efforts.

They want to keep you down with them so they are not constantly reminded of their own fears and constant thoughts of lack every time they see or hear about you. Now I know that not all friends and family are like this, but many are. Mine were.

It’s these types of people that are constantly disrespecting money, prosperity, wealth, and abundance and when they do these types of things they are just bringing the opposite into their lives unknowingly having the universal laws of attraction working against them

They see rich and successful people as greedy and the cause of all that is wrong in the world. They believe everything is a scam that nothing good can be real, all sales people are liars, and if it’s outside the scope of what they consider a normal 9 to 5 job then they have a closed minded to it.

However the irony of it all is these same people will go out and buy lottery tickets to try to become instantly rich!

Why is it that so many people who have won lotteries are broke just a few short years?

It’s very simple because by some really fortunate luck at beating the odds that it takes to win the lottery, they won a fortune but their ignorance caused them to lose it all.

Their ignorance being that you can only earn income only to the degree that their awareness will allow them to keep.

Huh? What exactly does that mean?

It is easy. If you are not aware that you can earn that kind of income or possess that kind of income on a daily basis, which in this case the lottery its worth millions of dollars, most likely you are going to lose it all and the statistics show this to be true.

From my observations the vast majority of people who win these lotteries are the very type of people that have always been cutting down other people that were already successful or on their way to success in their chosen field.

I personally know seven people that were very closed minded about money, they were the very type of people I have been describing and through some tragic events they inherited or won in lawsuits millions of dollars and each one of them except one lost it all within a span of 3 years. One went through $2 million dollars in 18 months!

Also these people did not EARN their fortunes. They did WORK for it. When you have not worked for something to appreciate it, you have not experienced the gratitude of receiving all what you have worked for and built that connection, a mental connection to your fortune and success that you have worked so hard for.

These people always had the mindset of money does not flow their way. The law of attraction for them was one of lack, so when they had millions of dollars suddenly thrusted upon them they were still in the mindset of lack and the laws of attraction went to work to make sure they had lack in their lives.

Another thing is as you grow more successful and your income continues to soar, you become aware of your earnings and the status of the person you have become. You grow confident and have built a self esteem that makes you feel worthy for whom you have now become. You have the mindset of prosperity.

You can visualize earning even more, you can see it, and when you can see it, you believe it and that is the awareness that will allow you to keep what you have reaped for your self. There is a right way and a wrong way on how to use the law of attraction for you.

Remember like attracts like, that is the law of attraction

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